I want a girl so bad
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- 11 Reasons Why Men Never Pick The Good Girl And Why They Should
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- I want a girl SO bad.
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- How to Make a Girl Want You Badly
- Wanting a baby girl so bad it hurts--advice?
- Why many women want a daughter more than they want a son.
11 Reasons Why Men Never Pick The Good Girl And Why They Should
Hello--I am hoping someone has experienced some of the same feelings I am experiencing. I would like some advice about how to deal with a great longing for a baby girl. I have 3 healthy and rambuncious boys ages 5, 3, and 1. Although I dearly love my boys, I guess I have always wanted a girl. The past year I have been dealing with these feelings and thought I had come to terms with them. Recently the hormones in my BC made my body feel pregnant and now I am back to square one with all the feelings of sadness and loss.
My head tells me to just get over it, but my heart won't. It sounds silly writing all this down, but has anyone else been at this place? Will I always feel this way? DH is very supportive and understanding. He is open to trying again, but I am not sure. However, DH has 2 grown daughters, so having a girl is not such an issue for him. I know I should just be thankful for 1 having children, and 2 having healthy children--please understand I realize this. I just need to hear how other people have dealt with wanting a girl--or a boy--so bad it hurts.
Thanks for your responses. I also wanted a girl after my sons were born. Not to the extent you seem to be having, but wanted her nonetheless. She was born when my boys were 10 and I loved dressing her in those frilly little dresses, bows in her hair, cute little shoes By the time she hit 3rd grade, she became the biggest tomboy you'd ever want to see, and still is somewhat at almost I blame her brothers, who taught her to bite, kick, spit, shoot hoops and slide into homeplate.
I always wondered why "Sarah" has all girls or "Susie" has 1 of each. I realized that god gives you what you need. Maybe a girl is in your future with another pregnancy or maybe your path is to adopt.
I hope you are blessed with grand-daughters : : : : And don't forget those daughter in laws, if they are in the cards!!!!!!! I can understand your longing for a girl, its nice to have a female in the house, just like you, to chat to, to go shopping with, to buy pretty things. I think you will get over feeling like that as you focus on your life with your boys.
You will, one day have 3 daughters-in-law and that will be nice for you. Something to look forward to. You never know how your life will turn out. As one poster says above, her daughter turned into a tomboy! Across the road from me is a house with 4 daughters and next door is a house with 4 boys. Its curious how some people have so many of the one sex! My father was one of 8 children, 5 girls and 3 boys.
I guess you will get a girl sooner or later, if you keep going, but you might end up with a very large family! Thanks for all your replies. I'm not sure why having a little girl seems to be so important to me.
Just one of those long seated desires. I enjoy my little boys--they are exciting, adventuresome, and fun loving. I guess part of the desire is the frilly dresses, the curly red hair that I don't have to cut short at least I would assume since all 3 boys have red hair , and then later on hopefully the chance to help my daughter with her children. I may be wrong but it seems to me that daughters have closer relationships with their parents than sons at least it is that way in my family.
Who knows, we could end up with a daughter that doesn't like us at all!! Maybe we will try again later. I need to get my head screwed on straight before I decide that--get those darned BC hormones out of my body so I can think rationally.
Funny how things like the size of your vehicle can partly determine how many kids to have! Thanks, I am feeling better today.
You are right, God has his reasons for me having 3 boys, I just get sad about it sometimes. Here is a link that might be useful: XSort. I just went thru this with my niece.
She was pregnant with her third after already having two boys. She felt so bad for wanting a girl; almost as if she thought she was being ungrateful for the children she had. If she had girls, she would have wanted a boy. It's perfectly normal. Yes, God gives us what we need, but he will also give us our hearts' desires too!! Guess what? She gave birth to a baby girl last Wednesday! She use a method that I really think works. I never used it intentionally, but when I look back, it seemed to be a pattern for me.
Do a search for the Shettles Method. Here is one link. Basically, if you want a girl, you should have intercourse several days before you ovulate. Here is a link that might be useful: Shettles Method. When the 5th child was born, the doctor came in the room and said, "You have another one. He said, "I mean you have another girl". She was quite upset but had no choice but to get over it. After the 5th one, they gave up. No one can predict the gender of a child. If you keep going, you MAY end you with a girl, but, you could also have another boy.
To this day, I wished I really had a brother, as all of us girls are a PITA to be around all at once and a brother would have been a great referee. I think there is something to that Shettles method, reflecting on when my children were conceived.
I have 2 boys, a girl, then 1 more boy. I know she was conceived early in my cycle than the boys. If I could wish a girl for you I would. I do understand the gratitude for what you have, but still a void for a girl. It's just nice to experience both sides of parenting. I don't know if I'd go so far as to use medical science to get my way.
It must be expensive, too. But if a little scheduling really does help As long as you are emotionally prepared if a girl is just not to be. I am glad y'all brought up Shettles. If and when we try again 5 children!?!? I think he is in California If it's any consolation, my sister also had 3 boys. She then went on to have 4 girls in a row! So you never know! Best of luck in your decision. If nothing else, you can hope for girl grandbabies! We are expecting number 3 in July and after 2 girls a boy would be nice but a girl is fine with us.
There is a family where they just had their 6th girl. If I was the mom in that family I would tell the dad that 6 is enough Baby was 10 lbs 12 oz. Here is a link that might be useful: Chinese Birth Calender. Thanks everyone for your replies. Thanks also for understanding. I have heard of the Shettles method. Maybe we will give it a try. Haven't decided yet. I really need to make sure it is a good thing for the whole family and not just me. Thanks again. I totally understand your desire for a girl.
Anyone want a baby girl so bad?
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We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. I already have a son who I love sooooooo much! But history shows on hubbies side boys run in the family so in my heart I don't even look at girl stuff. I feel guilty wanting a specific gender and try my best to just focus on my baby.
I want a girl SO bad.
Hello--I am hoping someone has experienced some of the same feelings I am experiencing. I would like some advice about how to deal with a great longing for a baby girl. I have 3 healthy and rambuncious boys ages 5, 3, and 1. Although I dearly love my boys, I guess I have always wanted a girl. The past year I have been dealing with these feelings and thought I had come to terms with them. Recently the hormones in my BC made my body feel pregnant and now I am back to square one with all the feelings of sadness and loss. My head tells me to just get over it, but my heart won't. It sounds silly writing all this down, but has anyone else been at this place? Will I always feel this way?
10 Reasons why girls think you are the ‘nice guy’
There I said it. But, I want to experience a baby girl so bad it almost hurts! I'm sure my hormones are not helping this matter any. I am trying to talk dh dear husband in not finding out the sex, I would love him to announce at the birth. Just one more thing to look forward to at delivery.
Men crack me up — to be fair, myself included. We all do. We all know exactly the type of woman we ought to end up with in order to have a happy and healthy relationship. But guess what?
How to Make a Girl Want You Badly
That, gentlemen, is a fact. Why, you might ask, would a women want such a dysfunctional dating lifestyle and subsequent relationship? Well, because women are bizarre creatures and the reason I know that is because I am one. These are the kind of men who are already firmly in arsehole territory and we see straight through those pitiful eyes and the fake BS that comes out of your mouth.
In the post she popped a random question. I felt outraged for the baby boys of the world that they were so maligned, so cast into second place. I would feel like my boys were being targeted. I think my kids are pretty great. Anecdotally I think the number is higher — especially if you reduced the survey size to just first time mothers. Overwhelmingly men preferred sons while women preferred daughters.
Wanting a baby girl so bad it hurts--advice?
Why many women want a daughter more than they want a son.